Sarah (@douconsideryourselfafeminist)
In brief: This page details the events of March 24-April 5. It focuses on Sarah and her friends.
Sarah posts the following story to @douconsideryourselfafeminist.
2019, March 24
Sometime later, Sarah deactivates her account.
2019, March 24-30
Sarah messages her Instagram friends. She states she is suicidal. By the end of the week, her friends are convinced that Sarah is a liar and a fraud. See one of her friend’s accounts of that week below, beside 2019, April 4.
2019, March 31
@superjadedalways, one of the friends in contact with Sarah, posts a video to her account. In it, she states that Sarah is a fraud.
“This is not an easy thing for me to film, but I feel compelled to. I feel it’s come to the point where I need to make my stance clear—(God these Instagram things are annoying)—I need to make my stance clear about a few things. Unless you’ve been living in a different planet of intersectional feminism, you’ll be aware of the situation that’s currently going on on Bianca’s platform about exposing Sarah aka douconsideryourselfafeminist as a fraud.”
She continues to say that she believes Sarah is a fraud, and she’s particularly concerned at Sarah’s inability to account for the money she took for a Black Panther screening.
2019, April 1
In response to a question about what happened with Sarah, @superjadedalways posts the following comment to her account. The account she's replying to is hidden for privacy reasons.
2019, April 1
Another of Sarah’s friends, @femandfedup, posts a video about Sarah. The following is a partial transcript of her video:
“I think it’s time to address some things now that I’m home, specifically about @douconsideryourselfafeminist and Sarah. So, to start, she did help a lot of people and she did do some good and she did help me, specifically, get out of a very bad relationship as she’s helped a lot of other people do the same. But, but, that does not excuse anything that she has done so far or that Bianca (@whydidyouswiperightho) has been looking into now. Honestly, I’m disappointed, I’m angry, I’m frustrated that this person who preaches accountability can’t hold herself to that. Due to her actions over this past week, I’ve had to relive some very traumatic experiences for me only to find out, to put it mildly, it was mostly bullshit.”
“Why is this person, who is so big in this community, unable to hold herself accountable when she has gone after so many other people for ‘the same’ reasons? I don’t think I’m alone here when I want more than the non-apology that she has given some of us. I am not one of them. I’ve gotten nothing so far. And I did consider myself a friend, and I think that I was very wrong on that count now.”
2019, April 4
One of Sarah’s friends, @elizabeth.xu.tang, posts the following story to her account.
@just.softboy.things, another of Sarah’s friends, posts the following caption and comment to her account.
2019, April 4
Anonymous sources share the following images. The first set shows messages sent by the Facebook account “She Her” during March 24-29, purporting to be Sarah’s mom. "Sarah's mom" is on the left with the grey background. The friend is on the right with the blue background. The second set of images shows Sarah stating that she wrote and send these messages, not her mom.
The second set shows a conversation between Sarah and one of her former friends. Sarah is on the left with a white background. The former friend is on the right with a grey background. The account @avariableconstant is Sarah' private Instagram account.
Set 1:
2019, April 5
Set 2:
